Conveniently Ignored

Sometimes I really don't understand what's going through his head. If hinting is not sufficient, I just tell him directly but he still can conveniently ignore what I said.

For example I whatsapp him this:

And added saying, "BB I want this!"

He didn't even reply me at all! When I asked him did he see what I sent him? He asked, "What did you send me?" He did receive it. It's there in his inbox BUT he just didn't see it. How conveniently been ignored.

This is just one of the incident.

I didn't receive anything from him on Christmas, Valentine's Day, Anniversary, whatever special occasion you can think of I don't receive anything from him! Yes! Nothing! I got the necklace on my bday bcos I asked for it and have to drag him down to the jewelry shop and got him to buy it for me! How pitiful :( He WILL NOT get me anything on these special occasions how can I even dream of him getting me little surprise gifts occasionally? It's harder than striking 4D!

I know he reads my blog. But did he do anything about it? NO HE WILL NEVER. He just hold onto his disclaimer: I am not the romantic type so don't expect such acts from me. F**k his disclaimer!!

I tried all ways and means to put it across to him how I wanted to be loved. But nothing works. Yes, he bought me herbal tea when I was sick. He passed me money when I am broke. But does he has to wait till I'm sick then he will show that he cares? Or wait till I got so stressed up with money and no job till I break down and cry then he realizes he needs to support me financially?

I asked him to watch the episode on knowing your spouse's lover language and speaking the language on Pillow Talk. He said he will do so but, as usual, he didn't. Some women enjoys being complimented by their partners. Some women enjoys receiving little gifts of surprise. Some women enjoys their partners doing things which they love with them. Being a typical Aquarius, I want a little of everything. I get bored easily hence I need varieties to keep me interested.

To me, I strongly believes that if the guy has the heart to speak his partner's lover language, he will do it. Irregardless whether he is the romantic kind or not! F**k his disclaimer again!!

Guys, you think it's difficult? No! Definitely not!! Just compliment her when she puts on a new dress. Get her a little gift when you are out. Take her out to do stuff SHE enjoys (not YOU enjoy!). I don't see what's so difficult about doing these! How do you naive guys think a relationship will sustain without putting in effort?? You only know how to complain how unreasonable we girls are. How demanding we are. But have you though about how much we have tolerated you guys as well? Tolerating your laziness, dirtiness, insensitiveness, and the list goes on.

I know after I post this, he would read it. But he'll continue to pretend he didn't read this and continue with his ignorance act.

Currently, I still do have positive balance in our love bank. Will till it depletes to zero and becomes negative, he don't regret.