After watching Pillow Talk (Channel 8, 9pm drama series), I suddenly 'remembered' the musical Hubby & I went to watch last year. Please see link below:
It is true that in many relationship, we forgot that we need to continue to deposit love after marriage. We only keep withdrawing the love we had saved up before marriage. Everyone has their preferred way to be love and to love. For me, I'm a bit greedy cos I love to be loved in every way :P
In order to sustain a relationship, even if one party knows how to talk the Lover language but the other party doesn't, it ends up one is depositing and the other withdrawing. The balance is zero. It takes 2 to tango, while you want your partner to love you, you need to love your partner too.
I know my hubby shower me with his love by helping me to do some household chores at times, he also takes note of what craving I have and bring me to eat or bring me out for movie when I need a movie therapy. If he could buy me little gifts to surprise me, that will be my bonus :D
I realized that my hubby is all I see (and our precious prince). I not longer check out cute guys or even notice them. I used to remember faces very well, even though I may not remember their names, but now, I didn't even bother to register their looks. They mean the world to me now.
To all my readers: Say the Lover language everyday. Keep the fire burning. And stay blissful :)
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