Independence

When I'm independent, someone told me that as a girl, I need to be dependent at times n not being always so hard up. When I tried to be dependent, I realized I end up having to be independent instead. This is so contradicting. I wish I have someone for me to be depend on but it juz seems like I hav to strive on my own n take care of myself.

I guess I'll juz stick to being independent n free myself from heartaches. I've learnt to love myself more.