8 simple ways to stay connected after sex

Extracted this from MSN... Would like to share this with my readers :) Try it out tonight with your partner! *wink*

By Marlina Azmi, MSN, 19/05/2010

Think hard about what you and your guy usually do after sex. Chances are, it's either sleep, eat, or flip TV channels. Not exactly romantic, especially considering that the few hours afterward are one of the best times to bond. According to American clinical sexologist, Rachael Ross, MD, PhD, "When you orgasm, hormones are released that make you feel more connected. Take advantage of that by doing things to prolong the feeling."

But please don't think it means doing something corny like having intense conversations or eye gazing. Little gestures can bring you big benefits. Try these tips tonight and we guarantee you won't regret it.

After the Big 'O'

Don't let the fun end the second you've finished the 'deed'. Since you've done such a good job getting each other all hot and bothered, wash the sweat off with a nice hot shower. Not only does it get the two of you squeaky-clean, the warm water keeps your body temp at the level it was while you were having sex. This lets you feel a little more energized (not wide awake, just energized) which leads to a little pillow talk session before drifting into a blissful sleep.

Sexy snacks

If you're hungry, forgo calling up McDonald's and break out red wine and cheese instead. It will continue the sensual vibe you had going, and the antioxidants in the vino will increase blood flow, relaxing the both of you.

Massaging moments

Upgrade your usual post-sex shower by giving each other neck rubs. The bonding hormones oxytocin and prolactin that are released when you climax are also triggered by touch, so the massage will extend the feelings of closeness.

Leave the world behind you

Before you get busy, turn off anything with an on button, like your mobile phones, computers and TV. That way, the only thing you'll be plugged into afterward is each other, not your Facebook news feed or Twitter.

Do not roll over

Instead of rolling over once the action is done, drape one of your legs over his and rest your hands on his chest. It will keep you connected without doing the spooning thing.

The emergency leave

Play hooky and call in sick after your romp. Having to leave ASAP, whether it's to meet a friend for brunch or attend your can't-miss yoga class, is a total mood killer. Reschedule your plans, and enjoy a leisurely hour or two of doing nothing together in bed.

Music matters

Set your iPod to that romantic playlist you saved. Choose tunes that remind you of your favourite moments together (like a concert you went to). Just listening to them will make the both of you feel closer without having to say a word to each other.

Reserve strip session

Reverse-strip each other. Slowly button his shirt, and let him zip up your skirt. Dressing each other is super intimate since it taps in to the primal instinct to 'groom' your mate.

Print this out, download in ur iphone, watever.... dun neglect the special bonding session with the one you love :D