When a surprise backfired!

W says he feels like gng to watch the airshow. But later decided not to. It's gd to hav he said. I made him BELIEVE that we r not gng anymore. And planned to go gym on Sat. He din know tat secretly I'm arranging to go for the airshow. Wanted to give him a surprise. So I went to ask my col abt the tickets purchase cos he told me he'd be gng. Heng I asked and he actualli cld get me a pair for free tix to the airshow!!! YAY!!! I wanted to wait till today when I collec the tix from my col den surprise W wif the tix. But I cldn't keep my excitement so I told him last nite. His reaction wasn't how I pictured it to be :(

He din show signs of excitement nor is been pleasantly surprised :( He 'insisted' on wanting to go gym on Sat. I told him we can always go on Sun after his soccer. He says why not go on Sun. But he says Mon gng gym liao. Dun wanna go gym consecutively for 2 days... I din arrange for Sun cos he every Sun morning go soccer until 1-2pm. And he wun skip gng for soccer for this.... So I thut Sat wld be a better day.... Feeling dejected after the unexpected response, I din feel like gng to the airshow anymore. Juz told him we'll go ahead wif gym on Sat den.

He sense my upsetness and say we go gym on Sun. I was upset. He was the one who said tat dun wan/cnt go gym consecutively for 2 days. Need a day in between to rest. So I 'insisted' tat we cn dun go for the airshow. And felt so stupid for wanting to surprise him thinking tat he wld be delighted to be gng for it. Everything juz backfired. Made me really felt like an idiot. Doing 'extra' things n kanna backfired. End up both not happy n engage in this unnecessary conflict.

I thut it wld be sweet to surprise him. Though I wld love it if he does it for me. But since he din so I did. But in the end... haiz....