Men Just Dun Get It!

Guys wan understanding gfs. But being understanding doesn't mean the ger dun hav the rights to be upset or disappointed or secretly wishing the bf wld do something diff for a change to surprise her?

I understand perfectly that W goes to the gym every Thu. I usu wld go with him but due to my injury, I'm unable to do so today. So he went ahead as usu n met his frens there. Though I was secretly hoping he wld turn up at my doorstep instead but he din. I know he wldn't. I know I will get disappointed but I still HOPE tat he wld surprise me n do something which I wld nv expect. Well, as I expected, he went to the gym. Naturally I felt disappointed....

Now, he is feeling frustrated tat I'm not being understanding tat he needs to go to the gym n I'm throwing a fuss of the fact tat he went gym instead of coming to see me. Sigh. If I wan to kick up a big fuss, I wld hav demanded him to come n see me instead of allowing him to go gym. I din complain to him. He come n read my blog den stir up the whole shit now it becomes my fault. I dun have the rights to express my feelings n emotions in my blog?

How wld u feel if u were the one receiving the smses below:

"Look, just me not coming over to see you today doesn't mean tt I am taking you for granted or neglecting you ok? I need to do my own stuffs too alright? And it's not everytime I do tt.. You know how I am.. I need to go to the gym ok? And me lying to you, yes it's wrong.. No doubts.. But I wont do it anymore.."

"Who is the one who is feeling unhappy when I said I need to go to the gym first? If you are understanding you wont even feel tt way in the first place.. And why now with the sudden change in attitude saying tt you dont feel like meeting tmr? I didn't even do anything wrong in the first place.. I just said I need to gum tt's all.."

"Ok then tell me why then? You're not like this just now.. What is it I dont understand? You always see things your way.. As long as I dont see it the same way as you, it is me who dont understand.. I cant believe you're feeling this way just because I went to the gym today instead of coming to find you.."

I din say he's taking me for granted or neglecting me. I din restrict him from doing anything. I din say he did anything wrong. Of cos he dun understand. If he understand, he wldn't be making the last statement.

Seems like I dun even hav the rights to daydream n get disappointed n emo on my own n whine in my blog. I cn quarrel wif him over this but I din. I felt like being misunderstood but wat can I say? He juz keep insisting on things which I din say. What he deduced n thut becomes the fact....