Quarrels can enhance or break a relationship. I'm glad mine got better :) At least we iron out the differences and understand each other better in the process.

W has been really sweet lately. He came all the way from his house to pick me up n we travel all the way from East to West back to his house on Sat. Long journey.

Monday came back to work. He went to pack lunch back for me n we ate tgt. Send me home after work n he travel the long long way back home.

Today I came in office feeling grumpy n tired. He see me so tired, he went to get me tea. Tat's really heartwarming n sweet :) little gesture like this touches me. I truly appreciate it!

Been complaining alot abt me being fat lately :( Cos I feel damn FAT!!! Argh... My arms, legs, tummy =.= bascially all over. The onli part I'm satisfied with? My wrist. Ha!

I was home early yest so got tons of time to iron my clothes n surf net. Was browsing thr my old photos in FB. Hmm... I seems ok. Not too bad la. Maybe need to slim dwn juz a bit more. But today someone has to spoil my little confidence by saying, "eh? 你的手臂很大!" :( Self-confidence downed to subzero again. Demoralised.

W has been really nice tat he kept telling me I'm not fat n he loves the way I am. But I dun. I hate the way I am. FAT.

Saw this in the magazine over the weekends. So went to buy it almost immediately to try out.



They have it for arms n tummy too but din get tat. Bought this to try try first. If it's really effective and good, den will get the rest to test out. Today is the 2nd day of applying. Well, my legs feels smoother but slimming? Has yet to see any changes yet. Hopefully it will!! It's for those ladies whose legs grow bigger from developing muscles. Juz the thing I need!! Well, a lot of reviews online says it's gd. Will juz hav to try it myself to really see for myself whether it really works. Will post the results 1 mth later after using....

Rusty Engine

After a long week of break, really having difficulty getting my engine to start :( Super slack. Hav tons of work clear, esp now is oso mth end, but I cnt seem to gather any motivation to start doing anything :(

Feel super fat :( CNY eat so much thut can go run in the cool kampung morning but haiz... Now cnt exercise for at least 2 weeks, feel tat my fats r growing, growing n growing!!! Next mth gng for my diving course le. I wan to shed off those ugly fats so I look gd in the wetsuit. hur hur... Super sadded....

I keep staring at those flabby, ugly tyres round my waist. ARGH! If staring cn get rid of them, I'll juz sit there n star whole day! LOL~ Those stupid tyres hav been wif me forever. Even when I weigh 45kg, they are still there!! Cant seem to get rid of them. Exercise, dieting, slimming sessions, nothing helps :( Looks like I'm forever stuck with it!!! Sickening!

都是我的错

"Ya.. Same old trick of hanging up on me and switching off your phone.. If you even have an ounce of respect for me, you wont do that.. Do i shout at you? Do i hang up on you? Do i even switch off my phone and leave you hearing my voicemail msg?"

"And dont say you are understanding when you are feeling upset over it.. That's not considered being understanding.. You're just merely hiding your displeasure.."

These were the 2 msges I received the moment I on my phone. Not understanding. Showing no respect. I dun care abt how u feel. Everything is my fault. You said the 2 things which attracted u to me most is my understanding n caring. Now I am neither understanding nor caring. Looks like there's nothing attractive abt me anymore. Looks like we've reached the end...

"It's always abt you."
"Everything I do juz seems not enuff."
"I dun see why you need to be upset over such small issue."

Seems so familiar to me. Heard it over n over again. Hearing it once may be a misunderstanding. Hearing twice maybe coincidence? Hearing it so many times. Ya it's true. Tat's me. Not understanding. Always finding fault. Never contented. Juz tink abt my own feelings. I'm such a sucky person. Lousy gf. I dun deserve to be pampered by anyone. I shld juz be alone n not waste anyone's time n mess up ppl's life.

不是任何人的错。一切都是自己错。

一切都是美好的安排？让我看清了自己。原来，我都没变。还是一样的差劲。

I merely wan to see u cos I miss u. Hoping to see u n felt disappointed is my fault. It became such a big issue juz bcos I wanted to be wif u...

Everyday I look forward to lunchtime. So I can be wif you. I look forward to off work cos I can be wif u. I look forward to weekends cos I can stick to you. I guess I'm being over possessive. Feeling lost w/o u by my side is my fault. I shldn't have love u so much n wanting to be wif u all e time.

千错万错，最终还是自己错了。

Men Just Dun Get It!

Guys wan understanding gfs. But being understanding doesn't mean the ger dun hav the rights to be upset or disappointed or secretly wishing the bf wld do something diff for a change to surprise her?

I understand perfectly that W goes to the gym every Thu. I usu wld go with him but due to my injury, I'm unable to do so today. So he went ahead as usu n met his frens there. Though I was secretly hoping he wld turn up at my doorstep instead but he din. I know he wldn't. I know I will get disappointed but I still HOPE tat he wld surprise me n do something which I wld nv expect. Well, as I expected, he went to the gym. Naturally I felt disappointed....

Now, he is feeling frustrated tat I'm not being understanding tat he needs to go to the gym n I'm throwing a fuss of the fact tat he went gym instead of coming to see me. Sigh. If I wan to kick up a big fuss, I wld hav demanded him to come n see me instead of allowing him to go gym. I din complain to him. He come n read my blog den stir up the whole shit now it becomes my fault. I dun have the rights to express my feelings n emotions in my blog?

How wld u feel if u were the one receiving the smses below:

"Look, just me not coming over to see you today doesn't mean tt I am taking you for granted or neglecting you ok? I need to do my own stuffs too alright? And it's not everytime I do tt.. You know how I am.. I need to go to the gym ok? And me lying to you, yes it's wrong.. No doubts.. But I wont do it anymore.."

"Who is the one who is feeling unhappy when I said I need to go to the gym first? If you are understanding you wont even feel tt way in the first place.. And why now with the sudden change in attitude saying tt you dont feel like meeting tmr? I didn't even do anything wrong in the first place.. I just said I need to gum tt's all.."

"Ok then tell me why then? You're not like this just now.. What is it I dont understand? You always see things your way.. As long as I dont see it the same way as you, it is me who dont understand.. I cant believe you're feeling this way just because I went to the gym today instead of coming to find you.."

I din say he's taking me for granted or neglecting me. I din restrict him from doing anything. I din say he did anything wrong. Of cos he dun understand. If he understand, he wldn't be making the last statement.

Seems like I dun even hav the rights to daydream n get disappointed n emo on my own n whine in my blog. I cn quarrel wif him over this but I din. I felt like being misunderstood but wat can I say? He juz keep insisting on things which I din say. What he deduced n thut becomes the fact....

Which is more impt?

Complained abt my not-so-romantic bf in my previous entry. Yap, I was rite, no surprise on Vday, end up still quarrel over it until I onli slept for 1.5 hrs n left hse to grandpa's. He took a cab dwn to pass me his perfume cos he wanted to pass me the other day but it slipped his mind. It's my fav scent. I already decided not to be mad at him b4 I knew he was coming dwn to find me. cos no pt. So wat if he does something now? It's completely defeats the purpose. To me, it has lost all meaning.

I mentioned how sweet he is when I sprained my ankle. Accom me to the doc n help me to wash my hair. Bought me Vit C tablet n coming over to see me for the past 2 days. I start to ponder, which is more impt? Giving me a big surprise on Vday or being there to take care of me when I needed someone?

Of cos, the best case scenario is to have both lah, but how many guys are actually like tat? It's rare to hav such guys ard. I thut younger guys r sweeter? Hmm.. seems like I'm wrong. I also thut Virgos are romantic ppl. I'm wrong too... Sigh...

Love is abt accepting the flaws. Everyone has. So do I. It's impossible to find the perfect one. So we need to learn to accept ba. Of cos, the other party cnt take me fpr granted. Juz bcos I'm forgiving n easy-going doesn't mean I'm gd to bully :(

Happening CNY!!

There's a limit to how clumsy one can get. Fell down on 2nd day of CNY due to being too diligent :( Brought my running gear back to msia to run. Sigh. Slipped n sprained my ankle n fell. I'm onli like into 7min of my run! Lucky cuzzie was there wif me. Otherwise I dunno how I crawl back hm sia :( Nearly fainted after the fall. Cos everytime I bleed I will faint. Lay at the roadside to rest while I waited for my cuzzie to run back hm n get the car to come fetch me...

See the pig's leg?? :(

The abrasion....

It was realli a happening CNY...

1) When I got to grandpa's they told me one of my cuzzie kanna food posioning. Went to see doc in the middle of the nite.

2) The car no. plate of my cuzzie drop off on the road.... we somehow found it along the road the NEXT day! LOL~

3) I sprained my leg n fell :(

Eventful sia... nevertheless, I enjoyed my CNY wif my relatives in Msia.

Wat a spread on CNY eve :) Eat until super duper full lo!!

Camwhoring wif my cuzzies :)

HUAT ah!!

At the seaside..


Mac Ice cream

孔明灯

Wearing the same polo tee as my beloved ah gong :)

More camwhoring wif cuzzies :)

My family...

Not realli in the mood to type long long post... Cos I cnt do anything except sit ard n rot.... LOL~

Anyway, Baobei was very sweet yest. He came over the moment I got back n accom me to see sinseh for my ankle. Helped me to wash my hair. Damn shiok! hahaha... Yeah, he din get me anything for Vday n I was uber upset over it but he's sweet de la. Thanks darling for showering me wif TLC. MUACKZ!

Happy Valentine's Day

It's one day in advance... I'm gng back to grandpa's for CNY so cnt blog tml la. What does Valentine's Day mean to you? A day to show ur love? Shld couples only celebrate their love on this day? Well, couples shld celebrate their love everyday but Valentine's Day is a bit special. Isn't it? To do something special tgt. And not doing the same old stuff everyday. If Valentine's Day is not worth celebrating den can forget abt any other occassions like Christmas Day, Birthdays, etc. Cos u need to make everyday special. This becomes NOT special anymore. Every will be the same. I tink having such occassions are for those unromantic idiots to at least tink of something n make the day special. If they dun do so on such days, what makes u tink they will do so on any other 'normal' days??

Who shld be the one to plan the occassion? The guy or the gal? 'Traditionally' it's the guy's job. Yes, the world speak abt equality among sexes. But is it ever equal? Women are still the ones getting preg n giving birth! Certain things will nv change. I juz felt tat if the gal needs to be the one planning, it's such a sad story. Tink maybe will be better off single whereby suitors will initiate dates n plan the day....

I already posted last yr on the flowers stuff. Dun wanna repeat myself. I hav oso been preaching abt being romantic need not hav to burn ur pockets, so I shall skip tat too. So why are all these men still not doing anything for their loved ones? Cos they feel tat Valentine's Day is a day businessman created to cheat their money?? Come on lah, guys. Valentine's Day is juz as impt as her bday, anniversary, Christmas..... make her feel special on this special day! Yes, I know, the sky will not turn pink n the clouds will not be in heart shapes on this day but make her feel tat the sky is! Be sensitive. Give her the attention. Make her feel special.

I belong to the pitiful grp which nv realli hav anything special gng on for Valentine's Day. It has been like this for my 20 odd yrs. When I was little, I wld daydream abt reaching sch n found a bouquet of flowers on my desk. It's disappointment yr after yr. Now I can understand why other gers in shld will get them but not me. Cos I'm such an ugly, fat ger back den. Who can only daydream abt such stuff. haiz.

My best Valentine's Day? It was in Uni, when I received my first and only bouquet of roses from my den bf. A mini bouquet but it was really a surprise. I realli nv expected tat cos I gave up dreaming tat I wld receive flowers on this day. Thought not my fav white lily but it's still lovely.

In the past, I wld hope tat I wld receive flowers from the ex hb, delievered to my office. But i got none. I see my cols receiving flowers so lovely but my table is always empty. I envy them. Even the not-so-pretty or the not-so-slim cols oso receive flowers... sigh. feel so xin li bu ping heng!!

I know a guy who handmade the roses for his gf. How sweet but poor me. I nearly vomit blood teaching him how to make them. It doesn't cost much but it means a lot to the receiver. Every rose, is made wif love. Envy again. Sigh.

Not pinning my hopes high this yr. I know I will get disappointed. For all of you out there, I wish all of you a romantic, sweet & loving Valentine's Day!

Very philosophical. If you have $999,999 and I give u $1, you become a millionaire. Every dollar counts.

My very philosophical staff made tat statement. Had a very interesting chat with him for 1.5h this morning. I do understand tat everyone has their own views abt life but I realli hav to take my hats off to salute him...

For 20yrs, the wife din not talk to him n they slp in separate room. He juz take it silently. He did not grumble nor blame the wife. He onli blames himself for not being some successful man who earns a lot n can let the wife live in comfort. If she nags or gumble he juz listen n not argue. It his fault, he says. He dines alone at him as the wife will leave e table whenever he sits done to dine tgt with her n the children. So he let them eat first n he eats the leftovers n clear the dishes. Sometimes he tears while eating. Sad. Working hard his whole life to support his wife n children. Supporting them thr education w/o asking anything in return. Sending them overseas to study. Saving every single cent, limting himself to onli $2.50 per meal during lunch. Sometimes I see liao oso feel the heartache :(

If the boss give unreasonable instructions or scold him for his work, he juz blame it on the fact he was unable to climb to above his level to be the one giving him instructions. If u r not up there den u LL lo.

He encouraged me to leave here. 5 yrs le. Promising me promotion yr after yr but I dun see it coming. He says here is not a place to stay on. Leave while u r still young. I do hav to agree wif him the ppl here are great but it's not a pl for career advancement. Promotion is on based on 'liking' not on capabilities. Our team has the lowest o/s cases n highest recovery rate but in time of apprasial, we were all ranked at the bottom. Sigh. Sad. Cheng sim. Voicing out and wanting justice, onli put me at risk of having a lower ranking then b4. Wat for?

Time to look for greener pasture.... Any jobs to intro?

Running = Bulky thights & Calves??

I have started to go gym n running 3 times a week since end Dec 09. I wanna lose those fats and look slimmer. So I followed the workout plan W has planned for me n I dilligently follow them thr. Somehow, the results are not wat I expected it to be :( It's realli upsetting. I'm getting more bulky n gaining inches instead of losing! My weight oso going up!! Demoralising. Should hav juz not exercise at all :( So I went online to do some research... To my horror, my ladies, like me, wanted to have lean legs but end up have muscles build up on their hips, thights n calves from running!! Gosh.... Yeah, there maybe lady runners who r lean n slim but they are the minority, the exceptionals. The majority, like myself, get bulky legs :( Sadded. Pants get tighter instead!! i do hav to admit it does tone up my legs but gaining inches? Tat's definately not any lady want! It was recommanded to do power walking instead. It helps to build long, lean leg muscles. I'm like siaon liao la... I juz signed up for the Newton Challenge for 30km run in Oct. If dun train up running how to go? But this will mean I will let my legs cont to grow!!! Damn it!

Apart from the growing legs, my arms r growing in size too :( did weights in gym. it's getting toned but the inches are on the raise! Sadded AGAIN! Everything juz like went the other way. hur hur.... W meant well cos I wanna lose weight. But the routine he impart me with is more suitable for guys who wanna beef up n looks great! But for ladies, we wan to stay slim not bulky! He says ladies will not get bulky de, it's very difficult. However I tink otherwise :( Abt 1 mth plus of workout, I'm feeling the effect... At first I was complaining over the weight gain but he says tat I'm gaining muscles faster than losing fats, tat's why the gain. Dun worry, ur weight will decrease later on. I believed him cos muscles r heavier than fats. I patiently wait for the day my fats will be shed n start losing weight n inches. Seems like everything juz went so wrong!

Super sadded.....

Coaxing

I believe most ladies wld love their guy to be romantic and know wat to do when they get mad at them. Hoping the guy wld do something to ease her anger. Sometimes the 'prolonged anger' is actually waiting for the guy to show his sincerity in saying sorry. When she dun get it, the 'prolonged fake anger' become 'real anger'.

"Why is he so dumb head??? Cant he juz be more romantic??"

Ladies are often contradicting animals. They say forgive u but secretly still hoping the guy wld do something to make her smile. To redeem his mistake. But tat nv happened. Guys usu juz 'happily' thut everything is over and carry on like nothing happened.

Ladies want attention. To be showered with love. Ladies voice out wat they are unhappy abt hoping tat the guy wld do something abt it. Yes, ladies wan to see the long term change but also the short term effect of making her smile.

For example, Guy made Ger angry. Guy said sorry and promised not the make the same dumb mistake again. Ger accepted his apology. Seeing the change or whether will he really not make the same mistake again is a long term thing. Ger want Guy to do something immediate. Like maybe make her a sorry card? If handicraft sux, buy one and write her a sweet sweet note. Actualli handicraft sucky anot, I believe Ger wun mind. Cos it's the thut that counts rite? Or buy her flowers. A bouquet maybe too expensive, maybe get her juz a stalk? Surprise her at her office after work n give her the flower. Buy her fav choco accompanied wif a sweet note will do the trick too. Guys, juz crack that seldom use pig brain of urs n tink of something! Note: need variety in ur coaxing methods. Everytime doing the same old stuff, it juz became a routine n sorry, it's so not sincere to the lady and it becomes boring instead of romantic....

And of cos, GUYS! dun only do it when u make the lady mad!! Do it occassionally to make her smile n brighten up her day! Simple stuff like a sweet MMS or ecard with sweet nothings wordings from ur heart can make her smile whole day n more forgiving towards u when u step gently on her tail. These cost nothing! Anyway, being in a relationship cnt be measured in dollars n cents la. If under tight budget den spend within ur budget lo. Pls refer to my previous post, NO ALL GERS ARE MATERIALISTIC!!! If she is, dump her. Such leech shldn't even exist in this world!

Gers love surprises!! I mean pleasent surprises hor!! Not showing up at her office with cheesecake when she's trying hard to lose weight. U'll juz kanna a big 'slap' on ur face. Den u start asking, "I thut u like surprises?" Stupid move. 该打!

Guys, cn u all juz wise up a bit? Seriously I dun wish to list down every single thing u cn do to make ur ger drown in blissfulness. But being guys, u all need to be taught step by step!!! If everything oso need the the ger to spell out, den it became meaningless. Hence I dun believe in ask n u'll get. Gers juz keep hoping n Guys remind blockhead n not giving. It juz became a vicious cycle... Den guy complaint, why gers always get mad over small trivial issues? But hav u guys paid enuff attention to the ger and knows wat she want? It takes 2 hands to clap la huh. If u hav treated her like a princess, u'll get ur emperor treatment too!

When a surprise backfired!

W says he feels like gng to watch the airshow. But later decided not to. It's gd to hav he said. I made him BELIEVE that we r not gng anymore. And planned to go gym on Sat. He din know tat secretly I'm arranging to go for the airshow. Wanted to give him a surprise. So I went to ask my col abt the tickets purchase cos he told me he'd be gng. Heng I asked and he actualli cld get me a pair for free tix to the airshow!!! YAY!!! I wanted to wait till today when I collec the tix from my col den surprise W wif the tix. But I cldn't keep my excitement so I told him last nite. His reaction wasn't how I pictured it to be :(

He din show signs of excitement nor is been pleasantly surprised :( He 'insisted' on wanting to go gym on Sat. I told him we can always go on Sun after his soccer. He says why not go on Sun. But he says Mon gng gym liao. Dun wanna go gym consecutively for 2 days... I din arrange for Sun cos he every Sun morning go soccer until 1-2pm. And he wun skip gng for soccer for this.... So I thut Sat wld be a better day.... Feeling dejected after the unexpected response, I din feel like gng to the airshow anymore. Juz told him we'll go ahead wif gym on Sat den.

He sense my upsetness and say we go gym on Sun. I was upset. He was the one who said tat dun wan/cnt go gym consecutively for 2 days. Need a day in between to rest. So I 'insisted' tat we cn dun go for the airshow. And felt so stupid for wanting to surprise him thinking tat he wld be delighted to be gng for it. Everything juz backfired. Made me really felt like an idiot. Doing 'extra' things n kanna backfired. End up both not happy n engage in this unnecessary conflict.

I thut it wld be sweet to surprise him. Though I wld love it if he does it for me. But since he din so I did. But in the end... haiz....

旧爱新欢

I hate this kinda feeling... Yes, Ivan dearie, she's in the past and I am the present. But the drama tat happened b4 he n I got tgt somehow inflicted an impact on why I feel the hurt and insecurity when it comes to her....

Before I got tgt wif W, I was wif T. W was juz someone I click wif and share same interest in most stuff. Feelings grew overtime and I found myself blurring the line of being juz frens. At the same time, things were not working out with T. W was sweet and he din ask for anything in return. He was there for me n I enjoy spending time tgt wif him. I was torn apart b/w the 2. There exist no fairness in Love. I tried to be fair but I cant. So I made my choice. I broke off wif T. Juz when this happened, W told me tat he was in contact wif his ex n he still felt something towards her. So did she. W had the intention of getting back wif her and broke the news to me. I was totally shattered. I know love cnt be forced. I gave him my blessings n be there for him as he tried to win her back. I hold back my tears, my heart breaking pain n be there for him. Trying very hard to remind a gd fren of his.

I tried to keep the dist. It was a torture. One day he juz came telling me he din patch things back wif her cos he kept thinking of me when he was wif her. He cnt be having feelings for both at the same time. So he told her he is not ready to get back wif her. He held my hand n things like turning towards me. But W was indecisive. He told me he could not be wif me cos he still tinks of her n has her in his heart. Wat can I do or say? I cn onli accept the hurt he inflicted on me when I thut he was as much in love wif me as I was wif him. For the 2nd time, he pushed me away. Squeezing me out of his life n went back to her. But tis time, she was afraid of being hurt by his indecisiveness again. She rejected. He was upset n I tried to cheer him up. Stupid of me n yes I nv learn. Stupidly in love wif him n hurting myself in the process.

He told me tat he wish tat he cld forget her n not let me down, someone who loves him so deeply. 我也只能苦笑...

Came a day he told me he finally made up his mind n wants to e wif me. Pushing her out of his mind. I was afraid. I rejected him. Being hurt twice is devastating enuff n definately put me in a cave, unwilling to come out. He was persistant. On the fourth time, I agreed, but still wif reservations.

Since the day we got tgt, there isn't a day I dun live in fear tat all these I hav now will suddenly disappear like b4.

It's natural for a ger to feel extra discomfort towards the ex but for my case, it's worse ba. I hate tat feeling but I cnt ignore it or simply let it go. The fear stays. The hurt heals but the scar reminds.....

Moblie ATM?

wonders why some gers wanna hav a bf for? To be their mobile ATM / Free meals voucher / Automative credit card / Bills clearance autobot?

Got this pic from Google homepage. I find realli sweet n cute so I 'kop' it here. Hope I dun kanna fine for copyrights...

Some event happened lately and triggered this post. I realli cannot comprehen that why some gers can 'chop' their bfs like 理所当然 de. Being the bf, he has to pay for my expenses including financing their shopping spree! I'm a ger too but I dun tink this is the correct way!! It's realli ridiculous!

Let me quote this example:

Girl went to see fortune teller. The fortune teller told her that she needs to wear gold on her to bring good fortune. So she went to get 2 gold rings which cost $180. Girl's credit card cnt go through so she asked her gf to help her pay for it first. Thereafter, Girl told the gf to 'claim' the amount from her bf. When I heard it, I'm like WTH, if the bf is there n he offers to pay ok lah. HE's not even there, she went shopping on her own n 'claim' from the bf? I tink this is too much lah. Although ppl oft say ask and u'll get but not like tat de mah.

Example 2:

Guy n Girl quarrel. Guy already paid for the holiday trip for both and Girl din wanna go cos she bu shuang. Guy wanna go ahead wif the rest of the frens. But she insisted on talking abt the problem onli on the day they are suppose to go for the holiday. Cant she get it resolve b4 that? has to wait like almost a week den decided THAT day is a gd day to talk abt it? End up Guy din go n Girl din wanna meet up in e end. WTF! She's not the one paying for the expenses of cos she dun feel the pinch lah! The Guy is already sweet enuff to pay for her trip n yet she has to 'chu pattern' n do such childish act.

I also come across jerky guys who promise but din delivery....

Example 1:

Girl wanna get a new bag. Guy went shopping with her. He offered to get her the bag (how sweet rite?) But ask her to pay for it first den he reimbuse her next month when he gets his pay. So Girl paid for the bag first lo. Next month came, no reimbursement of any sort.... In the first pl, dun act generous say wanna pay for it.

Example 2:

Guy say wanna buy Girl this and that. Girl says it's ok she dun need any of it but Guy insist that he'll get for her. Empty generous promise from Guy again. Nothing was been delivered. Not the Girl wan those gifts. If Guy has no intention of giving den dun act generous! Not all gers are materialistic =.=

I'm a strong believer of "Actions speak louder than words." If the guy is willing to 'sponsor' u den accept it, since he offers. Dun ASK for it! And Guys, if u really REALLY wanna get anything for ur gf, be observant when e 2 of u go shopping! She drops a 1001 hints to u what u cn get for her for anniversaries, bday, valentine's day, etc... No need to boost and say u'll buy this n that for her. Juz buy n give her lah! Haiyo!

A gift bought with the heart, no matter how cheap or expensive it is, it's priceless to the receiver. If the person thinks it's cheapo n dun appreciate it, den he/she is a materialistic asshole. My 2 cents worth :)