Cos I had a wonderful weekend with meine Familie (it means My Family in German), I wanna blog abt it :P It puts me pondering over the Friends & Acquaintances issue.
This was taken on Fri nite. We went Holland V to chill tat nite. We r all 'related' in family terms... LOL!
Taken on Sat (Halloween Nite) at Alps Cafe. We are a crazy bunch.It's amazing how we came tgt as frens n sharing we secrets, emotions & feelings. We have the mutual trust & understanding, being there for each other and we care right from the heart. We hang out, laugh, joke n get wasted tgt. We communicate on the same frequency and sometimes, we dun even hav to say it out, we know n understand. That's the kind of 默契 we share. Calling u the first instant something emo appearing on ur FB status. Throwing everything aside n rushing dwn for u when u needed someone. Having frens like them, sometimes left me wondering whether is there a need for me to hav a bf? If e bf is sucky, I'm better off wo one. If e bf is always not there when u need him, having frens like mine, wld definately make u better off.
Why we r closer to some frens n onli remind as acquaintances for some? well, communication is impt b/w frens too. If the freq is not insync, it juz prevents the frenship to dev further as mutual understanding stage cnt be reached.
Some ppl make 'frens' with a purpose. Cos they r benefical to them. I hate this kind of superficial fakies. They juz irks me. I know I used to be one too. But after going thr e shit n emerged with e help of my true frens, I realised the importance of frenship n wat it means to be frens. I treat my frens with sincerity. Even if they wanna betray me or wearing a mask in front of me, tat's their choice. I know I treat them well from my heart, tat's gd enuff. Those who dun will get wat they deserves one way or another. Everything comes wif a price and I believe in e 3 fold law.
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