Was chatting wif my col on how guys nowadays are becoming less romantic. Guys will do all the romantic stuff when they are in their teens and early twenties. Buying flowers, planning romantic dates, doing those romantic stuns to touch the gf. As time goes by, no more flowers, no more candles, no more glow in the dark stars....

She was telling me abt her ex bf gave her a surprise by buying flowers for her and sang her a love song. She was so touched. Yes, it sounds kind of corny, but it's like so sweet? Yes, it's not pratical to buy flowers but gers/ladies love them! Though they might say, "Aiyah, dun waste the money to buy me flowers lah!" Actually they are 口是心非 one. When they receive the flowers, they are actually smiling inside.

Another guy col said how he surprised his ex gf by decorating her room in glow in e dark stars. Again, it has this awww... effect. It's all not pratical. Cnt eat, cnt use. Juz for the romantic moment. But this touching act will etch in our memory no matter how long ago it had been. It's not abt the words being said, it's abt how ppl make us feel tat's going to last a lifetime. It's a sad thing cos we hardly experiance such classic moments in life.

This same col did something which I thut was rather romantic as well. Before he and his ex gf got tgt, they went out on a dnr date. After dnr, it started to rain. Without any pl in mind they wanted to go, this guy thut of a 'silly' idea. He went to buy an umbrella from Giodaono and said, "Let's take a stroll in the rain." Ok, for this, not every girl will agree to. Cos it might backfired like the girl saying, "HUH?? walk in the rain?? Then my shoes will be all wet!! It's my new heels!!" It's a spoiler when she says this. Atmosphere all gone liao. For me, I will smile widely and say, "Let's go!" I might even end up dancing in the rain w/o the umbrella... haha..

I have another col who has a very sweet hubby. He wld send her flowers on her bdays n Vdays. Sometimes, out of the blue, he oso send flowers for her to the office. I asked wat's the occassion? Then she replied, "oh, he said he saw this pair of cute bears during lunchtime n thut I wld like them. So he got the florist to bundle it up and send it over immediately." I was like, "wow! This is one sweet, romantic hubby!!" She's really lucky sia.

A fren told me last nite. "在一段恋情, 什么是最重要的? 是他无私的付出. 他如果能愿意无条件地为你付出, 这是金钱都买不到的. You are a very nice ger, make sure u open ur eyes and choose wisely." AS up till now, deardear has been very forgiving, supportive and doting. But it's only 3 weeks... 俗语说: "路遥知马力, 日久见人心." Time will tell will he continue to be this good to me in the long run. I have faith in him that he will :)