Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Went back over the weekend to celebrate another Dearie's 21st bday - Princess Sing :) Every princess muz go thr e 'ritual' of combing hair by their Jie on their 21st :)



With my princess



The legendary G4 of Teo family :)


I asken Ivan dearie to help me go buy e tiara for my princess...



He wanna zuo yong you bao... Aren't u envy??


A grp photo after e sumptous buffet dnr :D


1 is never enuff for us...


Nope, we dun stop at 2 too....



Another one... heehee...


One more with the cakes :D


To love is to sabo :D I told them, lucky u peeps were still young when I celebrated my 21st. hehehe....



Then it's open prezzie time :) Jie bought her princess Versace perfume w body lotion.


We had lot of fun n laughter but something unhappy happened towards e end. End up everyone left unhappy :( not trying to pt finger at who's at fault or wat. Juz tat, certain things cn be avoided. Not we dun understand, hav u open up n talk abt it? If u dun say it, wat we cn see frm ur reactions r juz throwing tantrum, gng crazy over something trival. We r always here, u know that. No matters wat happens, ohana stays rem? Fears that u face, or pressure u need to handle, we wun noe if it's not being said. No one is a mind reader. Yes, u said he understands u but wat did u do to him? U pushed him away as well. Asking all of us to F*** off even when we offered to help. If u had not gone out of control screaming n crying, wld we need to raise our voices to talk to u? U asked me wat's e pt of calming dwn? HELLO, tat's a dumb qn. u need to calm dwn to tink. Keep on screaming, shouting n crying will nt help in anyway. I hope u cn tink it thr ur actions n reflect. Not drilling further into self pity. To walk out of e darkness, u need to stand up on ur own. We cn onli give u support. To do it, u need to depend on urself. Tink of wat ppl had done gd to u, nt juz wat wat ppl had done u wrong. I believe u r old enuff to tink n reflect n not escaping to him for refugee.
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He sms me n came to pick me up after work yest.











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