Wanted to blog abt this cos of a date invitation I received on Sun. He wrote, "Anyway, I am kinda busy today and tom. How about I see you on Tue. Can we call it a date."

I replied, "Tue I got something on. How abt Fri? A date? *blush. means e guy will come pick up e ger w a bouquet of flowers? Keke."

His reply, "Wow that serious huh? Anyway, can I tentative on that."

I wun expect he'll actualli cm pick me up wif a bouquet of flowers. Cos we dun get this kind of romantic guys ard anymore. Nowadays, when a guy dates a ger out, he dun plan, dun make an effort to make e first date an unforgetable experiance to leave a lasting gd impression for e ger. It wld hav been half e battle won if e guy is able to create tat positive lasting impression :)

An example of a 偶像剧 first date. hahaha... The guy wld pick e ger up at her pl. Maybe wif a small bouquet of flowers. Of cos he needs to do his hw wat kind of flowers she likes. Not every ger likes roses hor.

Brg her out for dnr. Need not hav to be an expensive restaurant, but definately not foodcourt!!! Again, find out what she likes to eat beforehand. So e guy cn safely choose wat to eat instead of asking e ger what wld u like to hav? e ger sure says anything la. To be polite, ask her if it's ok if we eat this? If it's her fav, 80-90% she wld agree. Note: Be observant on details, if she's having sorethroat or wat, even if she loves fish n chips dun brg her go eat tat lah!

Brg her to watch a movie. Lots of hw needs to be done cos again e guy needs to know wat kind of movie she likes n does she like to watch movie. If e guy is asking me out den lucky him, cos I'm a movie freak who watch any type of movie (but... last nite i saw a thriller of a malay ghost movie, give me money I oso wun go watch... very scary... sob sob... I cn even scream while watching e thriller....) rem to hav a jacket ready in case she's cold. Though e best is to give her a warm hug but on a first date... e guy wldn't wan to end up kanna slap ba.

After movie, bring her to e beach to take a stroll n chat. (cn skip e movie n go beach if she dun like movies.) Den again not every ger so 诗情画艺 like me. *I know u r rolling ur eyes now...* need to know each other better rite? So need some quite time to communicate. If she dun like e beach, brg her somewhere else to sit n chat. There r plenty of nice pl ard to chill n chat de :)

After that, send her hm. Walk her up to her unit. It wld be so gentleman of e guy to do so cos by tat time wld be pretty late le. If e guy is lucky, he might even get a goodbye kiss on e cheek ;)

Very typical movie plot, however, men dun do tat in real life. It cn realli melt a ger's heart though. Most importantly, be urself. Dun try to be someone u r not. Even if e guy managed to impress e ger, how long cn he try to be someone else? If she likes him for who he is, den she's e ger he is looking for :)

Sadly, wat we see nowadays r plot like this comic here:

Welcome to the real world. There's no such thing as wat was deplicted in e 偶像剧.