Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Does love has an expiry date?

Someone told me that I need to pay more attention to my grammar and vocab. Hence, I have edited my post...


Last night, I went watch this Thai movie, Ploy. It wasn't a fantastic movie, however there's one particular scene which I think is quite meaningful. In the scene the husband n wife were quarrelling...

Wife: Do you still love me?

Husband: Of cos I do.

Wife: Den why dun I feel tat u still love me?

Husband: If I dun love u, I wldn't have married you.

Wife: Tat was in e past.

Husband: If I dun love u, I wldn't hav stayed married wif u for 8 yrs!

Wife: It's 7.

Husband: ....

Wife: We dun spend time together anymore.

Husband: We see each other everyday n every night.

Wife: No, I mean realli spending time together. You dun bring me to the restaurant anymore.

Husband: We own a restaurant. Why do we want to go to other ppl's restaurant?

Wife: You can oso bring me to a movie. You dun say you love me anymore.

Husband: We have been married for 8 yrs! You wan me to say I love you everyday for 8 yrs?

Wife: It's 7. If you realli do love me, you will. I need to feel tat you still love me.

Husband: Ok, if tat's wat u wanted... I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.......

Wife: (feeling annoyed, she gave up n walked away.)


How many times we actually overlooked to tell our loved ones we love them? Yes, maybe deep in our heart we really do but the hectic lifestyle made us 'overlooked' the little things in life. Showing them you care and how much you love and treasure them. No matter how much in love you were with each other in the beginning, if you do not put in effort to maintain, it will slowly fade away as well. Nothing stays the same forever. It's an Art to cultivate and maintain a long lasting r/s. Some ppl spend their whole life searching for an answer, for a solution, for a 'fool proof' strategy and found nothing. Love has no fixed formula. Start saying 'I Love You' to the ones u love :) Make them feel ur love today :)

Love does not have an expiry date like canned food. No dates were printed cos it cld last u a lifetime if u know how to preserve it well. Love is also not like instant noodle, it's not something quick & fast & u eat for the sake of filling ur stomach. Love is ... I dunno yet. I'm still exploring, experimenting, experiencing.

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