Thursday, January 29, 2009
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My New Year Resolution
To lose weight (shit I'm still eating choco now....)
To meet up wif my dearies more oft (I miss them so MUCH!!!)
To be less slack at work (hoping for promotion tis year...)
To be less impatient wif mummy (so sorrieeee....)
To cut dwn on alcohol intake (Dar says, "U sure???")
To spread my love to ppl ard me (hav plenty to go ard now....)
Thursday, January 22, 2009
The Menu is damn thick n heavy loh... but nice huh???
The sushi/sashimi chefs. They r juz next to our table. Wa lau... made me so hungry looking at them preparing the delicious looking sushi......
It's a working day afternoon... We still had hot sake... hehehehe.... The meal will not feel complete w/o sake.....
The Chinese cabbage appertizer. CY dun like this vege but he still ate it cos he find it slurpy :P
Veges again.... but very well stewed... yummy...
This potato salad is damn nice loh... even e salad veges oso WOW!!! At first when it came I told CY it looks like cow eat grass... but e grass sure taste gd!! kekekeke....
CY's set. Brown rice, salmon sashimi & steam cod fish. So healthy....
Mine :D wakyu beef... wa lau.... super juicy n nice loh...it feels like heaven..... den u bbq e beef on e hot plate. e stove is using charcoal n not e usual solid fuel.....
Lovely dessert :D e rock melon is super swt until I nearly choked!!!
CY says muz take a pic to prove I was there.... lol~
At the entrance before we left...
We saw an old uncle eating e paper steamboat before we left. We both wanna go back n try tat e next time. It sure looks yummy... hehehe....
After eating so much, we went jogging after work. Then we bought e33 n sit at e poolside to chill after our jog. He realli noes how to relax n enjoy life loh... hahaha...
BIG hug for my DnD aka HnH buddy.... I told him e name is too long... so shorten it to DH buddy... hahahaha.....
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Xing brought me there once n I fell in love wif e pl :) So celebrated my bday there. Kekeke... Had dnr then drk n ktv, all under one roof. Cool huh??? Nice ambience too!!!
Thanks pals for e wonderful bday celebration :) Realli enjoyed myself tat nite. Love u all!! HUGZ!!!
P/S: Thanks for pulling me away from feeling emo after singing those emo songs :)
Thursday, January 15, 2009

Heard on radio yest morning, e DJ was commenting tat ladies r more likely to hav an affair compared to men. As more ladies hav joined e workforce now n e power of internet, they r able to meet up like minded ppl more easily. In e first pl, if u r happily married, will meeting up w like minded ppl change anything? e 2 DJs started debating over 1 of e sms they received frm e listeners. Tis lady said tat she's in a dilema. She still loves her husband a lot but she's not getting enuff sex frm him. So she had sex wif other guys n she felt so guilty over it. 1 of e DJ said she cn juz request n she'll get it. then e other says, she cant be always e 1 requesting it. I agree wif e latter. Esp when she request n kanna rejected, tat's e worst. Though we r living in e era whereby we tink there's equality b/w man n woman. But tis is onli to a certain extend. Having e lady always taking e initiative den kanna rejected how will she feel? Changing e role, if it's e guy?? How will he feel? Guys, when they get rejected by e ger they r courting, their ego got smashed n felt so devastated, den being a ger kanna rejected by e partner for sex, wldn't tat be worse? Nobody likes rejection. It gives e feeling of 'unwanted'. Although intimacy is not everything in maintaining a r/s but it plays an impt role in sustaining it. Couples lack of intimacy wld face the danger of breaking ups n dun be surprised to see the intervention of 3rd parties. So, starting telling ur partners u love them, not onli thr words but oso thr actions. Show them how much u care n love them. No more 爱在心里口难开 tis is bullshit. If u realli love him/her, cm on n let it show :)
Some1 told me tat one shldn't wait for a person for too long. There's a certain time frame to wait. Cos pass tat time frame, no matter how long u wait, e person will still nt be wif u. End up wat u get is juz a "I'm sorry." How much does tat 'Sorry' cost? It cost tat person nothing. But e time spent waiting for him/her, how much hav tat cost u? I thut abt it, quite true. why waste time on some1 u noe things will not happen. By moving on doesnt make u a flirt. Dun miss out on other flowers in e garden along e way. Ur Mr/Ms Right might be juz round e corner. Wat I hated most, dun tell me u like me (when I oso do...) n yet tell me I'm not ready to get into a r/s. Den dun tell me u like me in e first pl. Things might not turn out well, but at least u test it out. U nv try, u'll nv noe. Nothing is certain or fixed, it's volatile. Even it doesnt work out, still cn be frens ah. Like me n AN now. We r like buddies now. Being frens n couples is a total diff thing. Juz like CY n I cn be such gd buddies but if we r couple, I tink it will be hell. A total mismatch.
Talk abt CY, he intro me to FF n he was entitled for e lucky draw. So tat time he joking says if win split half wif me. Guess wat?? Yes, he won!!! 4th prize!! According to him, it's $888 cash!! Wow!!! When he told me, I told him no need split me half lah, how abt getting me a new HP?? kekeke... Wif 2 yr contract n trade in my old HP abt $298 ba. heehee.... And he said ok!! Yippee... no need to tink so much abt whether to get a new HP.... :P
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Why I wrote this. Cos most ppl will noe my blog is pinky, maybe I like pink so I picked this blog skin. But tat's not e reason. I chose it cos of the butterflies n them being in white is a bonus. I love butterflies n white is my fav colour. All my pinkish stuff fooled many ppl. Cos HE said pink is my colour, it suits me.... So when he buys me stuff, it'll be in PINK! My fav white was faded to e backgrd, or push to an insignificant corner.
Someone told me something last nite so triggered this entry. Anyway not impt. Juz some random stuff :) but I like e passage I post earlier. Someone forwarded this email to me. So instead of forwarding it, I decide to post it here for all my readers. Do take some time to read thr it :)
男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人,
因为20多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点,
没钱、没地位,没房、没车、没事业,
不能独立又不想依赖,挣扎着彷徨着,寻找自己的位置!
而20多岁的女人却是她生命中最灿烂的时候;
男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人,
因为二十多岁的男人还很“懵懂”,
而二十多岁的女人却很灿烂;
二十多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点,
而二十多岁的女人却是她的大好华年;
二十多岁的男人很不知珍惜,
而二十多岁的女人最需要被珍惜;
二十多岁的男人自卑到极点所以非常自负,
而二十多岁的女人却在努力建立他的自信;
二十多岁的男人不懂爱,不会爱却需要爱,
而二十多岁的女人需要被爱,需要关怀,却要付出呵护付出关怀;
二十多岁的男人没钱、没事业,
但有欲望 而二十多岁的女人空守着自己的韶光不再;
女孩子二十岁左右是她最美丽的年华,这时她的心地最善良,她有点成熟,又有点孩子气。
男孩子在二十多岁时遇见了一个年纪相当的女孩子,那一定要珍惜她,因为这个女孩是用自己最美丽的年华陪他走过了最暗淡的日子!!!
女孩只要陪他走过,女孩会永远幸福下去~~~
当女孩对你撒娇甚至无理取闹时,请男孩不要烦恼女孩,
因为她们有道理这样,我们没理由烦恼,
我们要做的就是很理解很理解,保护好这位天使,
等我们到了30岁,正当我们最美丽的时候,也请你不要放开这位曾经的天使!!!
二十多岁的男人不知道珍惜,不知道感恩.
当他们三十多岁的时候,事业有成,成熟稳重.
开始嫌弃曾经陪伴过他,但不再年轻的女人.
有人说男人其实是最专一的.
因为从20岁到80岁的男人都喜欢20岁左右年轻漂亮的女人.
这是个笑话,但也是个事实.
有人说现在的年轻女孩都很现实,眼中没有爱情.
称着年轻嫁个有钱的,一辈子也就有个归宿了.
男人有时好比洋葱,要想看到洋葱的心就需要一层一层去剥。
但是女人在剥的过程会不断流泪剥到最后才知道,原来洋葱是没有心的.
Monday, January 12, 2009
I finalli got my lazy ass to move n look for e warrenty card cos I was soooo upset over unable to take pics of e food I ate at MOF yest :( Food consider not too bad. Cnt say its taste is uber fantastic but its setting was nice loh... sigh... AN treat me at MOF cos I accom him shopping to buy new yr clothes n stuff he needs for his reservist. He buy until so happi sia. Cos Sat he went alone to shop at Bugis, no accomplishment. So he muz thank me lah. I was he free image consultant. LOL~ Then this fella huh, bought 2 tees, 2 pairs of shoes, 1 shirt, 1 jeans, 1 tie, n a backpack. Tat day he still suan me for buying 2 shoes at one go -.-" Quite a no. of the shops at MS are having discount. Then bought his jeans at onli $55!! Which originalli cost $178 loh! Had a hard time looking for his size, cos sale item mah, usu not much sizes left... I din manage to get anything cos e fitting room Q is too long le... I dun like to buy clothes w/o trying.. cos looks nice on e shelf might not look nice on me. So.... Then this idiot says he no need to try cos anything will look nice on him... *roll eye*...
Damn shagged after tat. Dragged myself hm, wanna KO after I shower but Prince was awake so played with him for a while... onli managed to slp at 12.45am... cos D called me at 12am... I wanted to chat wif him lah. So cnt blame anyone loh :( Very long nv see him after he started working at this Jap rest. His working hrs damn terok, 10.30am to 10pm. Very no life ah. Poor him... Then he felt so sianz after work last nite, wanna go out but everyone wld be hm to rest as Mon gotta work. Tat's e life of working in svc industry loh. Pity him :(
Feel so restless at work now. Went gym to rest a bit during lunch then pack back to eat. Eat abit then no appetite le. Not tat it's not nice but I tink I falling sick soon due to nt enuff rest :( But I still need to go jog after work then go back rest. Then again, when I see Prince huh, I will forsake my slp again -.-" I'll miss him soooo much after e confinement period. Then i wun get to see him everyday le :_(
Trying very hard to conc at work......
I re-read my blog. Wa lau, written in super Singlish... If I write this in my report, my boss gonna kill me loh... hahahaha....
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Then went to S6 to meet my newly made frens :) Onli saw them for e 2nd time. But they r such nice, warm peeps. Made me laugh whole nite. And I'm not afraid to sing in e hall... Cos my singing sux... usu cn onli hide in e room to sign... Anyway these ppl r fanastic. Love hanging out wif them :) Went to eat bak kut teh for super... OMG, I'm gonna be so super fat :( More jogging next week!!!
So sadz, my HP is 'sick'. haven brg it to go see doc yet. Lazy me.... :P then e current HP cam sux. sigh..... So no pics... my blog is now so wordy!!! I dun like wordy blog.... :(
I bathe my Prince for e 1st time today!!! Hehehehe.... Du pray pray ah... I noe de hor! At least I'm better than my bro... kekeke.... Prince is my onli motivation now. Looking at him, carrying him in my arms, makes all my sadness, tireness. all go away. He's my precious, my darling...
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Friday, January 9, 2009
Poor me need to go back to work :( Dun wanna camp here to spend my weekend..... I wan to hug my Prince!!!
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Someone asked me wat I wan for my bday. I told him where got ppl say wat they wan de. Then will be no surprise le mah. But he says, he rather get something which I like than to get a big surprise n it's something I dun fancy. Well, true but I love surprises!!! Knowing wat I'll get spoils e suspense n fun leh.... If he reads my blog, then he'll get some idea wat to get for me?? Like I love butterflies.... If he's my bf, of cos I wld hope tat he gets me a necklace lah... Butterfly necklace? hmm.....
Din log in to facebook to check on my pet yest. Cos I stayed in office till 9.30pm :( Hope some kind souls cn help me go shower n feed him... My Xiao Xin needs some pampering.... kekeke...
I was freaking tired by e time I got home last nite. But seeing my prince, my tireness all wear off le. He was still wide awake so I told him not to slp first wait for me to shower n cm back to carry him :P He was still awake by e time I'm done :D Carried him in my arms n talked to him. He was super hyper last nite, kept moving his little arms n legs. He's so cute!!! Then he started crying :( Not my fault hor... He was hungry le... n his diapers was soiled. Somehow I felt a slight tinge of bitterness inside... sigh... dun tink so much... back to work!!!
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
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Tat day someone asked me wat present to get for a pratical ger who dun dress up, onli goes Orchard TWICE a yr, tinks soft toys n flowers r simply waste of money..... So w/o thinking I told him to buy her pad. LOL~ I was searching to buy pad so tat was wat came into my head then loh... Then he asked, "wun she tink i'm some psycho?? Who in e rt mind will buy a ger pad??? Some more I dunno wat brand she use!!!" "Aiyo, every brand oso buy loh. Then she cn try all out see which is better mah. Practical mah. She needs to use it every month.... Some more it'll be a very big present. LOL!" Though practical n useful lah, but it's juz a joke. Nv get a ger pad pls. hahahaha......
For me, I'm a typical ger lah. Loves flowers. Loves chocolates... But I wld love my bf to give me a necklace. Cos I'm e kind 1 necklace wear liao seldom change de. So most of e time it will be there n it's close to e heart.... sweet :)
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Another very sweet thing. My ex from 8 yrs ago called me yest.... hmm... then he came dwn to my void deck to chat for a while after he knew of wat happened. To my surprised, he still kept e bear I gave him last time wif our neo print on it!!! OMG!!! The white bear has become black bear liao loh.... LOL... But I nv expected him to keep tat bear for soooo long n sitting on his office desk all these yrs!!!! Oh gosh... tat's realli very sweet of him :) Thanks for being so sweet (*^_^*)
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Saturday, January 3, 2009
CY intro me this poem... actualli onli 2 lines from it. He's realli a very smart guy loh... Apart from my kor, he's e onli guy I praise tat he's damn smart!!! The bold parts r wat he told me.
千金散尽还复来, 莫使金樽空对月. Nice one I like this phrase.
《将进酒》 李白
君不见黄河之水天上来,奔流到海不复回。
君不见高堂明镜悲白发,朝如青丝暮成雪。
人生得意须尽欢,莫使金樽空对月。
天生我材必有用,千金散尽还复来。
烹羊宰牛且为乐,会须一饮三百杯。
岑夫子,丹丘生,将进酒,杯莫停。
与君歌一曲,请君为我倾耳听。
钟鼓馔玉不足贵,但愿长醉不复醒。
古来圣贤皆寂寞,惟有饮者留其名。
陈王昔时宴平乐,斗酒十千恣欢谑。
主人何为言少钱,径须沽取对君酌。
五花马,千金裘,呼儿将出换美酒,与尔同销万古愁。
Friday, January 2, 2009
Having sorethroat after all e partying n I still went ahead to eat Mac last nite wif my Dar. Now pain like hell.. Dun wish to talk much :(
After wat happened to me, I like suddenly realised there are so many divorce cases ard me. 9 out of 10 r due to infidelity. Is it e temptation too high or ppl r getting less responsible n it has become a social norm, "ok to cont dating after marriage?" Then why get married in e first pl? This ger fren of mine was married for abt 7 yrs. From my pt of view, she has a doting hubby. There was once her hubby called a few sec after she hang up wif him. He called to asked whether e car honk he heard juz now was it honking at her. Cos this fren of mine is pretty, how shld I say, cnt find a word to describe, anyway, she dunno how to cross a road if there's no pedestrian crossing or someone to guide her. So e hubby called to check lah. I tink tat's sweet of him. But she tinks tat's irritatin. Like he called to 'scold' her like tat. My fren is a sweet n nice ger who any guy see like oso feel like protecting her. Even me loh! Then recently I sense something not rite gng on wif her n one of our mutual guy fren. I asked both n both denied. But anyone wif eyes cn see lah. Their actions, eye contacts.... All e little little things. U might say I'm too sensitive but I'm not e onli one who said so. Well, I tried to hint her n tell e guy off but things still e same. Now I realli look at e guy at a different light. I realli doubt his character cos this is not e first time he got involved wif a married woman. So is there 'extra kick' to be involved wif married woman? Usu man side track for sex but for woman, they seek emotional comforts. I tink tat's very cruel of e guy to do such things and when things turn ugly, he will juz pack n leave, leaving e ger to deal wif e mess. It's ok to flirt, juz dun flirt wif e wrong ppl. If e person is attached or married, dun go n be e 3rd party. What goes ard comes ard. One day u'll feel e same pain.....
Everyone heard abt e recent accident at BKK? My col's bro was killed in e hotel fire. I saw e name this morning on news. I thut tat name was close to my cols. And coincidences do happen. On a new yr eve, he lost his bro. Life is realli full of unexpected events. Tat's why ppl always say live everyday as though it's ur last. Tell e ones u love them b4 u lose e chance.
Mum, I do love u. I noe wat I had done hurts u but juz let me lead my life. Please?
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Wanted to blog a long entry but I was hoked playing wif my pet on facebook. lol... Cm visit my pet when u log on to facebook yah? Hugs n kisses for all!

