I sent Pattie my apologises via friendster message tag and this is wat she replied:

"hey hello... No worries about it...already forgot what happen... Err you sound upset ? are u ok ?"

Then she send me a 2nd message:

"Becoz of your message, out of curiosity I went to your blog. I am sorry that this happened to you. You definately deserve someone better...the things you talked about.. was the exact same thing I went through those X numbers of yrs I was with him.

Well, you definately deserve someone who is better and who love you and give you a secure future.

He seems to be a big kid who never grows up as it seems that what started off could be rectified if he would be willing to talk things through and sort it out with you.

Anyway, you take good care and you will definately find your happiness soon ya! :-)"

I added her in facebook, and I gained a fren :)