Communication plays a critical role in any r/s. When communication breaks down. There when all the problem come setting in. Pattie say these to me,

"he is the sort of guy, when he hits a bad patch in his r/s, he does not seek to resolve it, he will bear till he could no longer hold it, then flare up. Once it happens, he will be super stubborn in his decision unless someone whom he is close with, is able to talk sense into him. In those 'bad patch' days, if he comes across a girl whom he can get along with, he will then be tempted to leave the old r/s for the new one. However, he will not leave his old r/s until he is sure he would be able to get the new girl. Also, while he is with you, he will still do/say the things that you want him to, because to him, that is already part of a routine which he can say without any feeling... it does not mean anything to him. He does not like handling girl's temper, so instead of not doing it and letting the girl have a go at him, he will guai guai do it so to have peace.

If he is unhappy and frustrated, he prefers to speak to his gal friends instead.... there is this girl he knew from poly days (can't remember her name.. but she is quite big size one) then there is also his god sister. So in fact, prob the only persons who knows what is going on in his mind is those 2 because he does not know who to have an open communication r/s with his other halves."

He dun tell me abt any prob he's facing. It's always me doing a 1-way communication. I dunno what's gng thr his mind n it oft frustrates me when he tell other ppl (most of e time r GIRLS) abt his prob. I'm there, his wife. Why can't he tell me?? Aren't we suppose to share e burden?

Why I cnt let go. Bcos I cnt forget those sweet memories he had created for me. But when I tink abt them it's like so freaking long ago.... For e past 1 yr or so, it's been more unhappiness. All those rejections, neglect, coldness.... shit... tearing again....

DC said, He n I were e most loving couple he had ever met. And if he has a wife/gf praise him like how I praise tat idiot, he wld feel so proud. Cos the wife/gf is so proud of him.

Sigh.....